Bizarre Provocations

NeuroKink Academy is open!

♾ 🌈♾ Enrolment is NOW OPEN for NeuroKink Academy Cohort 1! 
 
Designed specifically for neurodivergent kinksters! Fuck! YES!
Whether you're looking to explore your desires, overcome challenges, or embrace your unique identity in the kink space, Cohort 1 has you covered.
Spaces are limited, so secure your spot today my rainbow, slutty neurokindred!🌟
 
Join class today!

Not avoidant, just autistic🌈

Autistic connection styles and ways of relating are often misunderstood
What looks like avoidance is usually something else entirely. In this episode, I unpack how my need for space, direct communication, and selective social energy can come across as distant when, in reality, it’s just how I navigate relationships.
From balancing solitude with connection to breaking down unspoken expectations, this conversation explores what’s really happening beneath the surface.

Attunement, Scaffolding, Power Dynamics & ’cleaning as you go’

Just recorded a podcast episode on attunement, power dynamics, and the underrated art of 'cleaning as you go'.
From reading a room to reading a dynamic, it’s all about presence, responsiveness, and knowing when to take action.
 
Tune in for the full breakdown!

Kink, connection & ND brains. What is Kink? m4a

Apologies for the audio quality in this episode; my mics were dying, so I added background music to cover it up. First and last time I’ll do that (I hate it), but I hope the message still comes through loud and clear! 🎙️
 
Kink, Connection, and the Neurodivergent Brain: Redefining Desire Beyond Sex
What does it mean to be horny if it’s not about sex? In this episode, I explore kink as a deeply emotional and mental connection, not just a physical act.
I talk about the unique experiences of neurodivergent brains; especially those ADHDers & autistics, to discuss how kink becomes a framework for trust, intimacy, and self-expression. From the dopamine highs of anticipation to the sensory richness of rituals, I unpack why kink resonates so deeply for those who think and feel outside the norm.
Tune in to challenge assumptions and redefine what desire really means.

Monthly Mischief in Sydney: Paz Bizarre’s Exclusive Tour Tease

Join me, Miss Paz Bizarre, as I bring my slutty self to Sydney every month, starting this February!
 
With a devoted boy sub at the heart of my visits, I’ll only have room for 1-2 additional clients each trip.
If you're craving the chance to experience the Bizarre, don’t wait; spots are extremely limited.
 
Listen for the details of my exclusive Sydney tours, how to secure your session, & why I’m already brimming with anticipation!
Ready to indulge? Let’s make it unforgettable
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Best Vibes,
Miss Paz
XXX

Spitroasts, cuckolding & group play 🖤

In this episode, Paz Bizarre explores the captivating world of spitroasting, cuckolding, and group play.
Discover the nuances of these dynamic kinks, their unique appeal, and how they intersect with power, intimacy, and how to prepare for your play and the aftermath.
Whether you're curious, experienced, or simply expanding your understanding, this discussion offers insight into navigating these desires with communication, consent, and creativity.
 
Best Vibes,
Paz

Psychedelics, Autism, Ego Dissolution & Beauty

One of the most profound effects of psychedelics is the dissolution of the ego. That might sound abstract, but in practical terms, it’s about letting go of the part of you that’s constantly trying to measure up, to compare, to seek validation.
For me, losing that sense of ego wasn’t about becoming detached or indifferent- it was about becoming more connected. It allowed me to see beauty as something inherent in people’s energy, their stories, their experiences, rather than something tied to physical perfection or societal ideals.
My perspective from within the adult industry critiques the irony of spaces supposedly celebrating sexuality. Sex workers are expected to conform to increasingly extreme and artificial standards.
I provide reflection prompts at the end.
Best Vibes,
Paz
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Emotional Connection and Discerning Energy in Kink

🎙️ Ever wondered what goes on behind the scenes of a kink session or why emotional connection matters as much as physical intensity? This episode uncovers the rarely discussed layers of kink that can make it truly meaningful.
 
Whether you're curious about the emotional labour behind the scenes, navigating sub drops, or balancing hardcore play with real vulnerability, this episode is for those who want to deepen their understanding of BDSM beyond the surface level.
Tune in as I, Paz Bizarre, share candid insights into why emotional connection is a non-negotiable for me nowadays. How I discern where to invest my energy and why kink without communication isn't just incomplete; it’s unsafe.
 
Don't miss this chance to learn how to approach your own desires or sessions with more depth, trust, and care. 
 
❤️‍🔥Loved what you heard? Stay tuned for more episodes diving into the heart of kink and the mind of a discerning AuDHD kinkster MILF.
Subscribe to my podcast and join the conversation that’s redefining intimacy and play❤️‍🔥
 
Best Vibes,
Paz

Grounding Yourself in Connection: Presence, Communication, and ADHD

In this episode, I discuss the art of grounding yourself in connection, particularly for ADHDers navigating the complexities of communication.
I share practical strategies for managing impulses around texting and oversharing, embracing presence in relationships, and creating intentional boundaries to nurture authentic connections.
Whether you're trying to regulate phone use, avoid overrelying on constant messaging, or simply want to deepen your connections without overwhelm, this episode offers insights and tools to help you stay present, balanced, and in control.

Make 2025 the year you challenge Taboos, Embrace You!

Join Paz Bizarre as they explore topics around stigma, self-empowerment, and embracing authenticity.
In each episode, Paz reflects on their journey as a dominatrix, navigating both the judgments and rewards of living outside conventional expectations. With a blend of humour, candid insights, and deep introspection, they dive into the complexities of being unapologetically yourself in a world that often judges those who don’t conform.
Paz challenges listeners to rethink societal norms and consider their own experiences with judgment and freedom. Tune in for a raw and empowering conversation that encourages self-reflection, celebrates authenticity, and offers a safe space for those who choose paths less traveled.
This podcast is for anyone looking to break free from self-judgment and embrace a life lived true to themselves, with or without society’s approval.
 
These are at the end of the episode, so feel free to get right to the end to listen!
Prompts to Reflect On:
"Think of the ways your favourite provider might experience stigma."How does society view their work? What assumptions do people make about them based on their profession? What challenges do they face that others might not even realise?
"Think of the ways you personally experience stigma."Do you feel judged based on your profession, lifestyle, or identity? How does stigma affect the way you interact with the world, or how the world interacts with you?
"What does freedom from judgment look like for you?"How can you start living in a way that’s more authentic to your true self without the fear of others' judgment? What steps can you take to embrace self-empowerment?
"How can we better support those who choose non-traditional paths, whether in relationships, careers, or self-expression?"Are there ways we can create a world where different choices, like being single, choosing unconventional relationships, or doing non-traditional work, are met with acceptance rather than judgment?
"When was the last time you felt fully seen and appreciated for who you are, without anyone trying to mould you into their idea of what’s 'right'?"Reflect on moments where you've felt completely authentic, and what those moments meant to you. How can you seek more of those experiences moving forward?
"If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, how can you change that narrative for yourself?"How might you reframe how you talk about yourself and your experiences, in a way that empowers you rather than diminishes your value?
 
 
KEY TAKEAWAY:
Self-acceptance is a powerful force that can foster both personal well-being and collective inclusivity. When individuals embrace who they truly are, free from the burden of societal judgment or the need to conform to external expectations, they open up space for greater diversity within society. This internal acceptance acts as a foundation for greater external tolerance, compassion, and inclusivity.
Self-acceptance encourages people to feel secure in expressing their authentic identities, without fear of rejection. This can inspire others to do the same, leading to a society where different experiences, backgrounds, and perspectives are not just tolerated but celebrated. As more people feel empowered to share their true selves, cultural, racial, gender, and sexual diversities become normalised, rather than marginalised. This benefits everyone by creating more inclusive environments, whether in workplaces, schools, or social settings.
 
Kindest,
Miss Paz Bizarre