Bizarre Provocations

Make 2025 the year you challenge Taboos, Embrace You!

Join Paz Bizarre as they explore topics around stigma, self-empowerment, and embracing authenticity.
In each episode, Paz reflects on their journey as a dominatrix, navigating both the judgments and rewards of living outside conventional expectations. With a blend of humour, candid insights, and deep introspection, they dive into the complexities of being unapologetically yourself in a world that often judges those who don’t conform.
Paz challenges listeners to rethink societal norms and consider their own experiences with judgment and freedom. Tune in for a raw and empowering conversation that encourages self-reflection, celebrates authenticity, and offers a safe space for those who choose paths less traveled.
This podcast is for anyone looking to break free from self-judgment and embrace a life lived true to themselves, with or without society’s approval.
 
These are at the end of the episode, so feel free to get right to the end to listen!
Prompts to Reflect On:
"Think of the ways your favourite provider might experience stigma."How does society view their work? What assumptions do people make about them based on their profession? What challenges do they face that others might not even realise?
"Think of the ways you personally experience stigma."Do you feel judged based on your profession, lifestyle, or identity? How does stigma affect the way you interact with the world, or how the world interacts with you?
"What does freedom from judgment look like for you?"How can you start living in a way that’s more authentic to your true self without the fear of others' judgment? What steps can you take to embrace self-empowerment?
"How can we better support those who choose non-traditional paths, whether in relationships, careers, or self-expression?"Are there ways we can create a world where different choices, like being single, choosing unconventional relationships, or doing non-traditional work, are met with acceptance rather than judgment?
"When was the last time you felt fully seen and appreciated for who you are, without anyone trying to mould you into their idea of what’s 'right'?"Reflect on moments where you've felt completely authentic, and what those moments meant to you. How can you seek more of those experiences moving forward?
"If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, how can you change that narrative for yourself?"How might you reframe how you talk about yourself and your experiences, in a way that empowers you rather than diminishes your value?
 
 
KEY TAKEAWAY:
Self-acceptance is a powerful force that can foster both personal well-being and collective inclusivity. When individuals embrace who they truly are, free from the burden of societal judgment or the need to conform to external expectations, they open up space for greater diversity within society. This internal acceptance acts as a foundation for greater external tolerance, compassion, and inclusivity.
Self-acceptance encourages people to feel secure in expressing their authentic identities, without fear of rejection. This can inspire others to do the same, leading to a society where different experiences, backgrounds, and perspectives are not just tolerated but celebrated. As more people feel empowered to share their true selves, cultural, racial, gender, and sexual diversities become normalised, rather than marginalised. This benefits everyone by creating more inclusive environments, whether in workplaces, schools, or social settings.
 
Kindest,
Miss Paz Bizarre

The naked truth and the lie 🖤

In this episode, I explore the powerful themes of presence, grief, and resilience.
I discuss how shedding outdated narratives and embracing the raw, unfiltered moments can lead to deeper healing and strength.
Join me as I discuss the importance of being fully present in the face of loss and how resilience emerges when we allow ourselves to let go of what no longer serves us.

Recurring Contracts with Paz 🖤

Understanding Recurring Contracts and My Onboarding Process
In this episode, I explain the purpose and benefits of recurring contracts within my practice and why they’re essential for creating a sustainable, mutually fulfilling dynamic.
You'll learn what a recurring contract entails, how it differs from one-off arrangements, and why consistency and clear communication are at the heart of this structure.
I also walk you through my onboarding process, from initial inquiry to setting expectations, and why this step is crucial for ensuring compatibility and a seamless experience.
Whether you're curious about exploring kink with me or exploring best practices for structuring ongoing engagements, this episode offers a detailed breakdown of my approach and the values that guide it.
For those seeking clarity and consistency in their engagements, this is a must-listen.
Kindest,
Miss Paz Bizarre

Unmasking Paz

Unmasking vs Camouflaging
In this episode, I chat with you about the nuanced differences between unmasking and camouflaging, particularly in the context of neurodivergent experiences.
I share personal insights on navigating these behaviours, the emotional toll of blending in, and the liberating but complex process of embracing authenticity.
Whether you're neurodivergent or curious about the mental gymnastics of social interactions, this episode unpacks it all with compassion, honesty, and a touch of wit. Cos I'm a funny bitch!

Pivot for beta squad testing - 1-1 calls 🖤

📣 Calling all autistic kinksters! 🖤
 
I'm reaching out as I'm currently collecting data for a product I'm developing and testing focused on neurodivergent kinksters.
 
 
I’m now offering 1:1 chats for testing, with those in the community, whether you're new or experienced.
 
These will be relaxed, 30min interviews with me.
 
 
To clarify:
This is no longer sissy focused, as I have gone back to the start and am testing regarding GENERAL kink experiences for those who self identify as autistic.
 
For details, listen to my podcast episode
 
Miss Paz Bizarre
XXX
 
 

Toilet Play: The thrill, taboo & why I embrace poo!

In this episode, Miss Paz Bizarre, Toilet Princess chats about the world of toilet play!
It's allure, limits, & why it holds a special place in my practice!
I’ll break down the psychology behind the kink, the power dynamics it unlocks, & the delicious blend of control, submission, and intimacy it brings to the scene.
Whether you’re curious, intrigued, or just along for the ride, join me as I discuss why this taboo play is such a powerful tool for deepening trust & exploring limits.
This one isn’t for the faint-hearted, but if you’re here, you already know I'm Bizarre...🖤
 

B is for Bizarre Boundaries

Hello deviants!
In this episode, I discuss the importance of setting clear boundaries across different spheres of life.
Whether it's balancing personal life with client interactions or defining the limits within provider relationships.
This episode offers practical, actionable strategies for establishing boundaries that protect your energy, uphold professionalism, and create a sustainable work-life balance.
Perfect for anyone who wants to take control of their interactions and foster a more fulfilling, balanced approach in both personal and professional settings.
Kindest,
Miss Paz Bizarre
XXX

Embracing The Beginner’s Mind in Kink

In this episode, I dive into how the concept of "Beginner's Mind" can enhance your kink experiences.
We'll explore how approaching kink sessions with an open, curious attitude, free from expectations and preconceived ideas, can deepen connection, unlock new layers of pleasure, and foster growth in power dynamics.
Whether you're a seasoned player or new to the scene, adopting a Beginner's Mind can help you stay present, discover fresh insights, and continuously evolve in your kink journey.
Join me to learn how this mindset can transform your approach to play and make each session feel like a new adventure!
Paz
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Unlocking Pleasure: Kink is for Everyone

In this episode of Bizarre Provocations, I'm chatting about the world of kink & how it can unlock new realms of pleasure for everyone! Including those of us who are neurodivergent.
We’ll explore how embracing kink can offer unique, affirming experiences for neurodivergent individuals, challenge misconceptions, & discuss why kink truly is for everyone, regardless of where you are on your journey.
Plus, I've got an upcoming webinar you won’t want to miss!
To stay updated & get exclusive access, be sure to subscribe to my mailing list.
Kindest,
Miss Paz Bizarre
XXX

Screen addiction robs you of emotional regulation opportunities

In this episode, Dominatrix Paz Bizarre dives into the impact of screen addiction on emotional regulation in today's fast-paced digital world.
I’ll discuss how constant screen time can rob us and our kids of crucial opportunities to develop emotional coping mechanisms and self-regulation skills. I'll explore why excessive use of devices can be so damaging, especially for neurodivergent individuals, and offer strategies for reclaiming emotional balance at the end!
Tune in to learn more about fostering emotional growth in a tech-heavy environment, and consider how to create healthier screen habits for yourself and your family.
Paz Bizarre
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